This consciousness accepts all without judgment and truly love, while the ego is the opposite with its attendant judgments and denials. The God of the mind that is fear is often motivated by the fear of losing everything that represents these identifications, and therefore the non-acceptance of what is, is deliberately streamlined by the mind.
Saying no to these compulsive thoughts makes them real, because the ego, in general, like nothing.
When the ego says no to bad things, they grow up and when he said no to good things, they decrease.
When the ego says yes to the wrong things, they diminish and said yes when the good things, the good things grow.
I recommend this book to really learn to love, because that's really when we love the least that we really need to love more .Do not love a healthy love is a little against nature and it is slightly spoof scenarios "anachronistic".