Really happy with this book. I was a little hesitant at first, afraid it is difficult for a first as some books on adoption. But what a surprise, this book is very well built, with the beginning of each chapter, children's words about their feelings, then an allegory (a story) that illustrates the theme of the chapter, then the development of the theme, a summary ( for those who are not very read !!) and finally concrete tools at the end of chapter exercises, games etc. to do with the children or the entourage !! Nothing to say, we are waiting for relatedness and frankly this book is full of good advice and very reassuring stroke for future adoptive parents, it answers a lot of questions, it provides full solutions, so, we feel more serene and confident to host our children. Strongly, the next book in the series.