I love this wrap; it helped me survive the first month. When my baby was born, she wanted to be held all the time and wrap this allowed him to be close to me while I was doing things like washing bottles. If it was a little hard, and the fight against nap, wrapping in this immediately calmed down. I also still use it instead of a stroller sometimes when we go for walks. It took me some time to get it tight enough and he did loose with time, but for the price, it's great.