Magnet too strong for the female?

I bought the cable (but the X version without 202!) About 3 months ago and had me the super recessions connected until recently: The high-quality processing and loading capacity (1.5 A with no problems) are holding top notch and the magnet absolutely great - and that is also the big problem (at least for my Z3).
Recently, the charging socket was loose and the next day I was able to pull together with the plug. When attaching the socket you look at (a small double-sided tape !!!) not you wonder. Actually, the smartphone maker would have it only one star, and not this otherwise great charging cable. But since the original magnet is much weaker and not so heavily loaded the socket, I conclude that this charging cable is not optimally suitable for the device (magnet is too strong) - Here !!!