Why some couples (alas, more and more numerous) surrendered an early storm and break, while others do not give the bar and face the storm? The first, very in tune with our society of ease, often want to consume pleasure without effort. The latter believe, despite the tensions and conflicts that unique and valuable marital relationship they have developed gradually deserves attention to stay alive. I am one of those. This book is a plea for the couple that eats its own crises. The author addresses to include the sensitive issue of the development of the personality of the two dancers. In other words, to what extent be close to the other, without losing oneself? The couple evolves between two reefs: the fear of suffocation by the partner and the fear of too much autonomy space. Each pair set the correct distance, throughout his life! He will dance and alternately closely entwined and remotely. As in the trial by the same author, When the family gets tangled, I was excited: I highly recommend reading this!