I highly recommend this book. It is pleasant to read, very informative and helps explain why many relationships do not work. It's somewhere relieved to say that when it did not work it was not necessarily for lack of love as we tend to believe, but this observation is also a disappointment at the mess of a relationship that did not therefore persisted despite love. I found very interesting passages on false beliefs, including that all conflicts need not be resolved in a couple, that communication is not a recipe tjs and non-violent communication is not necessarily realistic in a couple and that happy couples are doing well without applying it to the letter as it can be taught in coaching. This book is also reassuring to the difficulties that every couple passes and is very positive, it makes you want to get back into a love story to practice all this new knowledge and understanding! Reboostée and I feel ready to do more skillfully enjoy my partner love that I can make it! :-)