Really thank you to Christel Petitcollin for writing this book. Me too by reading I had the impression to find my story. Through this book I no longer feel guilty found myself in this situation and especially I can see my coldly manipulative and laugh inwardly of its hackneyed tricks. I finally told me "I have not tried everything, I do not have all endured, I have not tried everything, I have not done everything that it gets better." Now I know that these people are fleeing. Until this reading I doubted again and suffered from feeling responsible. I am weary to help support, to encourage it. I recommend reading this at all, because it is vital to know that such people exist and that anyone can fall into the piège.Je think it can also help to better understand the people locked up in this situation and perhaps of the aider.J'en had read other on this subject, it is really the only one that allowed me to relive. Again thank you.