Despite the thorny issue might bother, this book is treated with intelligence and testimonies are useful to credit the statements, the viewpoints, it is a really well written and very informative book on behavior in the case of course changes love without particular judgments except findings on human nature and recurring behaviors and ultimately banal account! The human love hodgepodge, the dramatico pathético bobo and this is precisely what this is about, why run well, put a layer of suffering over the event, it's a game of sado masochistic débilito which the author evokes the famous game triangle Karpman, the infernal triangle where people play three roles (VICTIM SAVIOUR + persecutor +) next in turn how to turn the situation so no wonder things fester and turn everybody Jenny! Being aware of this is out of the triangle and become stinking ADULT making the right choice!