I've read this book after "siblings without rivalry." I think it's better to begin with "How to talk ..." Because It all Explains the basis of this educational style Even If "siblings without rivalry" is well Explained. I've read this book as a relative of two young children and aussi have a developmental psychologist. It's really well written and I love the educational style and all the advices. It offers great help to everyday problems and this approach can enrich you as a person as a social goal aussi professionnal worker. It's a must read!