"Is that one day I will love him like my daughter? Do I get to see her as anything other than Down syndrome?" Fabien Toulmé tells with simplicity, humor and above all sincerity the first months of his life after: the one that followed the shock of the birth of his second daughter and the announcement of his disability. Mother of a little girl 1 1/2 reached an orphan genetic disease, I can only recommend reading this book in which I found so many stages of my own journey. As far as the tearful story of political correctness, he dares to tell the truth: love is not immediate, it is built. A useful book for parents of disabled children, but perhaps more so for others, those unfamiliar with "the wonderful world of disability" and who, thanks to this book, we can say: "Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to handicapland " A big thank you to Fabien Toulmé for this testimony both funny and brave.