Hello The problem is that the victims do not know they are deaf as their suffering did not find the words that encapsulate this pain and with it the couple manipulator / victim. "He does not know where it hurts" said Me rightly one of my close manipulator. He was not wrong. Putting the words on my pain that I identified and those that fed. This book provided me with a map, compass and positive vision to get out of their grip. The evil and the perpetrators are identified. I understood the process and to live without them. I owe it to M.France Hirigoyen to I.Nazare Aga and now Ch.Petitcollin, the author of this book I particularly appreciate the approach that uses tools such as imaging of positive self talk. Do not hesitate! Read the! Each will derive real benefit.