There are several reasons why I would choose this book as my Millennium favorites: 1. It functions as one of the missing links psychotherapy beetween, Especially Hypnotherapy, and the wide field of spirituality and Eastern philosophy. This is one of the most serious and profound works did connects psychological and philosophical cultures and THEREFORE goes Far Beyond Technique. 2. The book guides you on a clear way to self-integration and, as the title says, self-relation as the basics of soulfull life. It presents a framework That Serves for Both the intellectual-spiritual and practical needs for a deep change in your life. 3. Not many books I've read feature the content of love in a way That does not end at romantisism, cliche or esoteric realms. Here Mr. Gilligan Could point out the immense importance of love as a SKILL in psychotherapy and in everyday life and gives hints how to develope it. 4. Wonderful stories and poetry about