Clear, useful, practical, easy ... What a joy to read this book. Saying there since 1981 and I do not know! Thank you to Béatrice Sabaté to have presented to the French public; I do not know the book in English, but the adaptation is excellent. I share all the ideas of Jane Nelsen is actually the first time I read in French ideas so close to mine on parenting. This book is truly a work of positive parenting. A bit worried by the term "discipline", I quickly reassured. This book highlights the attachment needs, the child's connection with its parent. It attempts to decode the causes of behavior rather than judging deviant. Jane Nelsen explains clearly how much punishment but the rewards are unnecessary and even harmful. The author also shares my views on the logical consequences (which often resemble punishments) and stresses that the pause is in the tenderness and not in a punitive perspective. Jane Nelsen invites the parent to accompany the child "in the corner", as this pause is a time to calm down and not to be punished. In short, a great book that I recommend to all fans of I tried everything, the heart of the emotions of the child. I loved the four "mirage goals" ... I let you discover them in this book that I would have liked to read when my children were small, rather than having to rediscover all by myself. An excellent book, very clear and full of examples (only seems strange to me). I hope the French parents will welcome it!
