At a time when marriage seems to make sense or is doomed to the ephemeral as everything is consumed, even love, to love for all legalized, the prospective couple became disposable institution since is a market economy sentimental empty. Now it is interesting to see, at least in people (especially women) who looked at the psychiatrist and therapist Philippe Brenot, how are the problems posed and the myth of Prince Charming. In fact beyond the expected meeting (there is a very interesting pattern of love stages with corresponding evidence hormones that we "fall" in love with "the knowledge of our own free will") the main problem after the effort of the meeting and the flames of passion, is to last .or all couples must learn to build personal strategy if they are to last. Brenot established a typology of couples and how they work and traps éviter.En fact the couple is a game that requires two consensus and common rules chosen ("Love of the Games of Chance" ), this is not the emotional or material aid that some seek in the other to fill their own empty or escape responsibility in the other .And the desire to live together is not just an agreed sexuality that tends to encourage the search for a more grass verte.J'ai bought this book because, happily married for 50 years, I feel like a diplodocus put in formaldehyde to be exposed to the museum for the future education of enfants.Je know now that I am one of the pairs defined on the principle of "companionship" (see the type) and that it is those who had the most. Phew! I am reassured .This book is fun to read and certainly useful for those who are asking the question of life as a couple, how to create it and make it durer.Et not complicated: only a matter of self-knowledge, goodwill and sincerity.