For the music, there are 5 star with all your heart and its decision will be only a little poem to me:
Before you want to judge me or my life,
put on my shoes and walk my way,
go through the streets, mountains and valleys,
feel the grief, experiencing the pain and joy.
Through the course of the years that I went,
stumble over every stone on which I stumbled,
get up again and go exactly the same distance further,
exactly like I did - and then you can judge.