In the first chapter with the prejudices against sluts how denote the authors, tidy. In our society, women who have more than one partner or in general a lot of relationships, one-night stands or affairs have very quickly sluts and the authors want to give a new meaning to this term. They emphasize that they want to support those who want to be the ethical sluts fraud is for them just fraud and unacceptable. Who on the other hand agreed with the partner that the relationship should be open, polygamous or polyamorous, which is to get from Janet and Dossie tips on how living together can be facilitated.
The main points are:
- Be aware of your needs and desires.
- Give your friends the opportunity to feel good when they meet you. That is, as I understand it, at least, say that any friend should enjoy exclusivity and to have the feeling to contribute a portion of the big picture - to your perfection. You need your friends and lovers, so display them.
- Keep your lover each other before, to avoid the most frightening aspects of jealousy, namely the fear of a partner from having your other lovers were taller, thinner, adroit, hot and in every way preferable to him
- Partners should give each other and their relationship Eight first. You must know and arrange to make arrangements and keep and respect their and other's needs their limits. It is necessary that they consider their own relationship in a state of being happy, healthy and fulfilling.
- Gonna make you not worry so much about what you do not want your partner is doing, but about what you would enjoy and then see how you can do it safely. Safe to say, without the other to hurt too much.
- Overcome competition thoughts: There are enough of everything for everyone. The authors are of the opinion that a person has an unlimited amount of love, as we finally love not only our partners, but also our parents, siblings, relatives and friends.
I found the book very easy to read. Even for people who are not interested in open relationships, there are very useful tips in this book. The "Ethical Slut" I would describe as a general relationship guide, as can also be applied to any advice monogamous relationships. In this book I have read so far best advice against jealousy. So if you have a jealousy problem, which was warmly recommended this book.
A nice reading that is also monogamous people living many tips!
