My son did not want to go to the bathroom (too high too big) but not on the potty. So I started looking for an affordable alternative (35,00 Euro for a singing toilet were just too expensive!) And found them. The children's toilet was with us to the bathroom and was immediately accepted by my son. After 3 months of use, it went on its own then on our toilet. A great product and comfortable for the child. He could lean and bear arms.