I (middle-aged man) had bought the spray, as I have often times problems with erection. First of all I have the reviews read and ordered yet despite queasy feeling. After 3 days, it finally came to and I tried it first "alone". First I sprayed the stuff on and waited for a moment, and it was on the description. I massaged the member is a first and nothing happened. After a further reaction time, I felt a pleasant warmth and was really "cool". In the evening I tried the spray together with my girlfriend, but I said that it was a lubricant, because I admit the use of power resources and this is embarrassing ... I for one find this spray really helpful because it has really helped me and I had sex again sensible over the holidays! I can not understand the bad reviews ... Maybe it's not to the spray, but at the opposite;) Keep it up and thank you