After reading other reviews of this book, I have come to the conclusion That it's a book for certain people, and Those people love it to death, while the others find it a disappointment. Having said that, I must say thatthis is quite Possibly the most moving book I have ever read. It is so much of an enigma to me as to what precise ingredients touch me so emotionally, but something in there spoke to me underneath the words. It's heartbreaking, beautiful, lonely, incredible, and as my title Suggests, it hits, for me at least, incredibly close to home, as though I were a Rabo Karabekian in my last life. And, without giving it away, I thought the secret which, for lack of a better word, perfect.