Although I too would have LOVED that everything can be resolved only by tjs tenderness, listening and good words :-)
(C is so much more rewarding too ...)
So in my case, this book m 'is extremely useful with my bou cabbage (and those of Daniel Marcelli like "It is permitted to obey")
Not too keen that it resembles the totally exhausting for them even children and their parents (and others ...) I see more and more around me ...