This book is about a very special kind of emotional abuse: receive the daughters of narcissistic mothers. Such abuse is poorly understood, although probably cause many depressive disorders. He is very difficult to grasp, because it takes place only in the most private environment, in the most intimate interaction and the mind participating mothers to the world possibly highly respected, socially committed, competent individuals are and nobody outside this Standing serious shadow suspected. Out of this silence, this shadow of their mothers herauszutreten- to help this book. It describes mental Deformations that entstehten it especially in the power sector, but also in the relationship with partners and other people, helping a healthy attitude to himself to develop, shows ways out of this confusing entanglement encouraged to trust their own perceptions and the closeness and distance make to this difficult relationship in full self-responsibility without guilt. Even for non-native speakers, the book is easy to read.