The cover of this little book is not very happy, even the title seems awkward, so this was a great surprise to read a well-written text, full of nuance, which effectively identifies the problem of the perverse relationship with her victim. It is interesting to learn that the victim is not by chance that narcissistic wounds from childhood attract you to the guy who initially is infinitely appealing. The victim must learn to earn self-esteem, a certain emotional autonomy. Many examples from the experience of the author, but also the literature (for the victim, Read all of some works mentioned may be appropriate) punctuate this book I recommend.