After aberrations, ditches between what we really feel and we got to do, this book is a real call to childhood and true parent-child relationship. If guilt comes to reading, the strength of what the author cries from the depths of herself quickly joined your own conviction. Even if the difficulties you could cross or crossing even caused you to bury your actions as justification or even for some of the convictions, to reassure you or maintain an image of yourself acceptable if not satisfactory , dare to change for your child, for yourself, for now, for the future, for a healthier society, truer. "We do what we can, we want to not be a bad father and a bad mother, but ..." Dare, dare to beat you. Dare to question your certainties, dare watch your own child suffering, do not deny that you have suffered violence "stored in a frame, a mold", but not flourished. Do reproduce them in your lap. You're capable of. The book addresses the tools to get there, it is not therefore an emergency door without conviction, without a guide, it is a guide, a relief. For us to go, to go to meet our children. Stop, stop blaming and use this energy to tackle this new relationship, sometimes to heal. Larry Crowne. Thank you.