Prisoner in multiplayer Depp Country

For usual "no NFS" etc: what is me totally annoying that in multiplayer no modes can be selected: ie I will only race not drive "Beinahkollision" or "reach takedowns", etc. For this purpose it is necessary to minute morons observe that * between * the race constantly a ramming, since these takedowns bring points.
How stupid is that? I always have 5 or 6 events deny ie play for half an hour, and it interests me only the solo race ...
And the whole center in a bunch of pre-pübertierende yobs who do nothing else when you crashing during the breaks. Because of "social game". That would have to do much better so that in the breaks extra points for speed cameras, jump etc can be collected ... but for takedowns ...
To control: that is not wrong but difficult, the cars have weight and accordingly they can be (not) to draw even. But - if one drifts pushes a magic power suddenly the car to the front (a la Split Second) and hey presto you're super fast. Once that one has learned it (steering wheel turn, then slow down, and then step on the gas) is much faster.
Otherwise the game looks great: there really is totally a lot to do and discover. Perhaps more is a patch with Selective multiplayer modes.

ADDENDUM: I have now for several hours behind me Multiplayer: First take the sessions ever (20 minutes or so), if a disconnect occurs (and it is), the whole progress, including SP path: Secondly, it is simply unbearable to be constantly reingecrashed , My solution - I switch to the Range Rover Evora, then crashed become Kamikaze ...