Good story - bad scares

The story sounds very cool first. Especially the children's theme I find extremely exciting in horror movies, since such films often gain spine-tingling moments. However, the shocking moments in this film are poorly used. Startled, I have actually not and creepy mood, I also can not hear. I would like to write here more about the movie, but then I would only spoil.
So in short: Absolutely no recommendation !!

!! WARNING SPOILER !!

And one thing bothers me most: Why the black dies first? And why ever dies anyway only the black? That's just so clichéd that I might break! The second star will receive the film because of the resolution. The fact that it was his sister and not the child at the end, although in itself makes no big difference, but is a nice twist. But as somehow are then at the end of all of the hospital and out No one talks more about the fact that there somehow is a spirit or so - can well go a little weak at the end. And what is this statement from the two elderly ladies? "You can sometimes see into the other world, if you're about to go over there"? Why then the protagonist looks over? Oh, that is so resolved: "Some things are better not questioned" - Yes WOW .. ingenious resolution .... OH MY GOD !!