This book is very interesting, it helps to understand the child's emotions but tends to wear them on a pedestal, which is intrinsically bad for them. It is true that we must listen to them but it would not be overprotective and avoid confrontation with others ??? How will they be armed in "real" life, where the majority of people are not patient and do not take gloves to put it. I have some doubts about the actual scope of this book. I am neither for nor against because I learned many things but I think it needs to be qualified while remaining attentive and available. Another element that bothered me was the too easy logic that if the child has a problem is that parents have a bigger and they have not resolved. I do not think it's so obvious. Human beings are complex and for me this approach is very simplistic. I read this book at the same time as that of Didier Pleux (educational guide for parents today) which gives an equally interesting approach.