The author's intention to write down what her experience so she can find peace with her past and her parents, Which in the end is happening. Fine. The account is mostly written in the style of detached description with only few hints to how the author really felt during her childhood. You can only guess how much she and her siblings Suffered from the circumstances and you start wondering why only one of them stepped into her parents' shoes. They all must have struggled a lot more than you can take from the book to be able to live Their dreams - a pity the description of this struggle has so little space in the book. So the book - though very interesting - what not truely moving.